Wheel of Consent® Videos
This page is a gift to you.
Over the last dozen years, Dr. Betty Martin, working hands-on with hundreds of clients, noticed some surprising things about receiving and giving. Out of this she developed a model called the Wheel of Consent.
Because her book was taking so long, she sat down one day to make some videos for all the folks who were asking about it and wanted to use it and share it -- and ended up with 7 hours or so.
You might enjoy the ideas - but it's the experience of it that will change you. When your hands get it, you get it.
On this website there are a number of other free ways to learn about the Wheel of Consent.
We hope you have a great time playing with it.
Before we start: 3 definitions
And what's it got to do with sex?
Lesson 1: Waking up Your Hands (and how it works)
Lesson 2: Taking and Allowing - how to find them and where they take you
The Taking Role: notes for body workers
Lesson 3: Serving and Accepting - how to find them and where they take you
The Wheel of Consent
The Halves: Receiving and Giving
The Halves: Doing and Done-to
The Quadrants ~ themes, challenges, possibilities, erotic elements, spiritual principles and shadows of each:
The Taking Quadrant
The Allowing Quadrant
The Serving ("Giving") Quadrant
The Accepting ("Receiving") Quadrant
Where it came from - Betty's story
BONUS! A nice long conversation with Harry Faddis, who invented the 3-Minute Game.